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Longing for the basics of life

My five-year old granddaughter, Liberty, called me the other day to report that she had just watched a TV show that came out when I was only five years old (just like her!)

“Did you watch that show, Nana? There’s a little boy named Opie who goes fishing with his Daddy.”  Just like her and her Daddy.

“Oh, I loved that program, Liberty. It was one of my favorites!”

“Nana, you were five years old too when you watched the program … but it only comes in black and white. There’s no color on the TV.” The show: The Andy Griffith Show.

Out of the mouths of babes! I love hearing wonder and excitement come from young children’s mouths and minds. So innocent and sweet. I want to record and remember her every insightful spontaneous saying and observation.

After doing some detective work, I discovered that the popular sitcom first televised in 1960 and ran for eight seasons. Apparently her Mother already had done the homework.

Do you ever long for the good ole days? Sometimes I catch myself daydreaming about them.

  1. A time when doors were never locked.

 2.  All the neighbors knew your kids and if they were doing something they shouldn’t, they called them on it. 

 3.  Very little objectionable material on television or the radio. Media was informational, but not immoral.

  4.  Anyone could walk the neighborhood streets after dark without fear of harm. 

  5.  Recreation meant bicycle riding, skateboarding, downhill sliding on a sled, building a snow fort and throwing snowballs, or playing dolls and a game of Sorry.

I don’t want to repeat my childhood or my teen years, but there is a part of me that longs for simplicity and a return to the basics of life. How about you?

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Simplicity (part 2)

My husband and I visited our son and his family after the birth of number 3 child. We treated the two older grandchildren to a restaurant visit. Liberty ordered chocolate chip pancakes in the shape of a bear head and Elijah devoured a plate of mac & cheese with applesauce. They knew what they wanted, received it kindly and proceeded to enjoy the food. They were hungry; they ate the food set before them. Plain and simple.

Together, we enjoy building Lego® (free form and with the instruction booklet), snowball fights with Grandpa, and grocery runs where Liberty pushed her own mini-cart. I encourage cookie and cake baking, messy kitchens, and extra hands to help set the table for dinner. It’s in these times, they grow and mature, and so do I. Plus, I receive an added bonus of grandchild–grandmother bonding. A simple, but priceless by-product!

It’s true what they say…if I’d known having grandchildren was so fun, I would have had them first. I’m convinced spending more time with, and learning from children, makes me a better person with a mind set on simplicity.  

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Simplicity

 Sitting on my desk right under my monitor screen rests a sign with just one word “Simplicity.” Webster defines simplicity as: not difficult, easy, not elaborate, complicated or ornate, plain, unassuming, bare, humble, lowly, and freedom from complexity or intricacy, guile, absence of luxury, and pretentiousness.

The best way I know how to describe the term simplicity is to listen to and watch children, to interact and talk with young people. For instance, with my grandchildren (ages 4 and 2 years) there is no false pretense or hidden agenda. They play freely without assumption of false dignity or importance. They let you know when they’re hungry or tired fully relying on adult supervision. For them, life is pretty cut and dried and innocence abounds. For the most part, if they are fed on time, allowed to rest an appropriate number of hours, given attention—they are happy.

Do I operate like this? Hardly! Or rather, rarely. I tend to be goal-seeking, worried about what others will think, complicated, and fussy. It wasn’t until grandchildren came along that I decided to slow down and enjoy our times together. Only then did I make the time to really sit down with Liberty and Elijah and enjoy the present. I finally realized that the present really is a present! With my own children, it seemed like I was always forward-thinking which caused me to miss the here and now precious moments.

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Simple Gifts: Embracing Simplicity

Simple Gifts: Embracing Simplicity – (Taken from Simple Abundance – A Daybook of Comfort and Joy, by Sarah Ban Breathmach)

“When we appreciate how much we have, we feel the urge to pare down, get back to basics, and learn what is essential for our happiness. We long to realize what’s really important.”

‘Tis a gift to be simple,

‘Tis a gift to be free,

‘Tis a gift to come down

Where we ought to be

And when we find ourselves

In the place that’s right

‘Twill be in the valley

Of love and delight

 -Nineteenth-Century Shaker hymn

 

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