Category: friends

  • Elegy for the Personal Letter

    Elegy for the Personal Letter
    by Allison Joseph

    I miss the rumpled corners of correspondence,
    the ink blots and crossouts that show
    someone lives on the other end, a person
    whose hands make errors, leave traces.
    I miss fine stationary, its raised elegant
    lettering prominent on creamy shades of ivory
    or pearl grey. I even miss hasty notes
    on notebook paper, edges
    ragged as their scribbled messages—
    can’t much write now—thinking of you.
    When letters come now, they are formatted
    by some distant computer, addressed
    to Occupant or To the family living at—
    meager greetings at best,
    salutations made by committee.
    Among the glossy catalogs
    and one time only offers
    the bills and invoices,
    letters arrive so rarely now that I drop
    all other mail to the floor when
    an envelope arrives and the handwriting
    is actual handwriting, the return address
    somewhere I can locate on any map.
    So seldom is it that letters come
    That I stop everything else
    to identify the scrawl that has come this far—
    the twist and the whirl of the letters,
    the loops of the numerals. I open’
    those envelopes first, forgetting
    the claim of any other mail,
    hoping for news I could not read
    in any other way but this.

    Taken from the Writer’s Almanac

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  • Bran muffin and a cup of coffee

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    I had coffee and a bran muffin at a local restaurant this morning with a friend under the guise of delivering a late baby shower gift. No, she isn’t expecting, but her daughter is for the very 1st time. And, yes, I did deliver the baby gift to her to give to her daughter.

    We hadn’t connected in WAY TOO LONG, so it felt good to finally catch up. Why do we wait so long to re-connect with our friends and loved ones?

     Reminds me of an old saying (Girl Scout saying possibly?):

     “Make new friends, but keep the old…one is silver and the other’s gold.”

     Anyone remember that one?

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  • have you been wronged?

    have you been wronged? of course you have, everyone has at one time or another.

    What do you do if a dear one is grievously wronged by someone she wanted to trust? Ever experience something similar? I have, and it hurts deeply. The pain lingers, and feels as if it will never depart.

    Truth is: human beings disappoint. God never disappoints, but loves you with an unconditional, pure, free-from-fear type of love. Isn’t it comforting to know we can approach God’s throne of grace anytime of day/night,   24-7.  

    The danger lies if I allow one person’s selfish act to infect my very being and personality. If I allow another’s grievous act to sour me…then I’m as guilty as that individual. Will I learn from the situation and grow and become a better, more stable follower of Christ? Or, will I become a dried up, sulky martyr who is of no use to anyone? Bitter or better? The choice is totally up to me.

    I challenge you (myself included) to use the next days/months to get to know God personally in an intimate way like you’ve never known him before. I guarantee you will not be disappointed!

     

     “For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom his whole family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.

     Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.”

    Ephesians 3:14-21

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  • Bonfire and Snow Picnic

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    Who says picnics are for summer only? Friends of ours invited Steve and I, Andy, Bethany, Liberty and Elijah to their home in the woods to experience a bonfire picnic, complete with roasted hotdogs and melted marshmallow s’mores. Yum! Yum! It doesn’t get much better than that.  

     

    Our outer garments still smell of bonfire. My gloves show tell-tale signs of gooey marshmallow and Liberty’s white mittens had a few splotches of ketchup…reminders of good times, good food, and good fellowship!

     

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  • Merry Christmas and a Miraculous 2010!

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    Praise Him, Praise Him (Author unknown)

    Praise Him, praise Him,
    All you little children,
    God is love, God is love.
    Praise Him, praise Him,
    All you little children,
    God is love, God is love.

    We have so many Praises over the last year to be thankful. Just to name a few of those Praises:

    • Steve celebrated 30 years with Motorola in 2009. Praise God for a roof over our head and food on the table.
    • Praise as we celebrate …One year post brain surgery for Teresa.
    • “Swiftsure” sailboat team, with Steve on board, raced Chicago-Mac and took 5th place! Praise for protection upon the open waters of Lake Michigan and memorable times.
    • New job for son, Andrew. He now owns his own website development business (.https://www.stonebreakersdesign.com/).  Praise for provision of a job to support his family.
    • Our daughter, Amanda, experienced her first motorcycle Midnight Ride completion along with her boyfriend, Austin. The two of them rode w/mom and dad, and all had a leisurely scenic ride back home from St. Ignace and the Mackinaw Bridge. Praise for travel protection and ability to enjoy fun times together.
    • First Christmas program participation by our granddaughter, Liberty, in their Minnesota church. Praise for joy and enthusiasm in a young 3 ½ yr old heart.  
    • Elijah James, our grandson, went from walking to running. P.S. one of his favorite words: “Na-Na!”  Praise for life, health, and speech in our 1 ½ year old.
    • Teresa attended two writers’ conferences: one in Cedar Falls, Iowa, and the other at Maranatha in Muskegon, Michigan, and was presented with the 2009 Hertel Award for “Best Devotional.” Praise for the gift and passion for writing and conveying God’s blessings to others.

    For this God is our God forever and ever; he will be our guide even to the end.”             Psalm 48:14

    May you and yours experience these promises this Christmas Season.

    Merry Christmas and a Miraculous 2010,

     

    Steve and Teresa Lasher

    https://www.lasherstudios.com/

     

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  • Life as a Mom of an ADHD kid, Part Two

     

    Read about my life with an ADHD child, feelings of inadequacy, and hope beyond hope at:

    https://www.differentdream.com/2009/12/life-as-the-mom-of-an-adhd-kid-part-two/

    This is the second day of my guest Blog posted on my friend, Jolene Philo’s, website. She is the author of a new book just recently published, “A Different Dream for My Child—Meditations for parents of critically or chronically ill children.”

    Jolene and I met at the Cedar Falls Writers Conference in Cedar Falls, Iowa and instantly bonded. We discovered one common denominator: we were both mothers of prodigal sons.

    You can also view my post on Jolene’s personal blog page at:

    https://www.jolenephilo.com/Jolene_Philo__/Home_.html

    If you’d like to talk, I’m here for you,

    Teresa

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  • Talking Turkey

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    I enjoyed reading an article by Mary Pierce, entitled Talking Turkey. Thanksgiving really is a time about bonding and family time–not so much about the food and whether or not it’s tastyor burned. 

    I seem to remember a sister cooking her original turkey with inside bag intact! And another sister baking sweet potatoes with a very generous amount of mint. But, of course, I wouldn’t think of mentioning any names…We love you, my dear sisters!

    Having an “attitude of gratitude” is really what it’s all about!

    https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/articles/talking_turkey.aspx

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  • Heaven Rejoices, but many here on earth grieve

    Thomas Edwin Hammond was tragically killed in an automobile accident last evening—so young…just turned 61 years old.

    I say, NO, it cannot be so! This gentlemen/pastor/chaplain is the person I credit to saving our son’s life. He made the call for Steve and I years ago, arranged a spot for him to enroll in Minnesota Teen Challenge’s 12-month drug rehab program, 700 miles away from home in Michigan. Without that call to MTC, I’m not sure where our son would be today. More than likely, dead.

    Then there was the missed telephone call…I’d talked with Tom earlier. Tom called back, but unfortunately I missed that call from him just a few short weeks ago. Instead of talking with him, I wrote on his FB page how much we appreciated him, and rejoiced at how well our son is doing today.

    I can’t wrap my head, mind around his death and what this deep loss means to his dear wife, June, children, and grandchildren. My brain is numb; stomach feels bottomless, body weak, and mind unable to focus. He loved and served his God faithfully for many, many years. As former youth pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Grand Rapids, Michigan, then chaplain at Forgotten Man Ministries – he gave his all to service in God’s name.

    I can’t imagine the grief his dear wife, June, and the family are feeling now. But I can say, without a shadow of doubt, that Tom was a man after God’s heart. He (and only he) made a call to Minnesota Teen Challenge for our teenage son. That call reserved a spot for our son that ultimately saved his life.

    Tom, I can’t begin to thank you enough for saving our son’s life. In my family’s life, you are God’s Miracle Worker. Well, done, good and faithful servant. You are loved much, and will be deeply missed, dear one!

    Sharing your grief,

    Teresa and Steve

     

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  • FOUND: Two Wise Men; one still missing

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    Teresa & Bonnie after a Bobbie Brown makeover!
    Teresa & Bonnie after a Bobbie Brown makeover!

     

     

     

     Some of you have asked: Just what did you do when your PA girlfriend came to visit?

     

     

     We kept busy to be sure:

    •  Free makeover at Macy’s by Tracy (Bobbie Brown booth) who is a great make-up artist! (see attached photos)
    • Tried on goofy hats at Macy’s, Penney’s, and TJ Max
    • Our all around best find proved to be two wise men perched on a top shelf at a Goodwill Store. A couple of years ago we started a lighted nativity scene in our yard. Each year we add another piece to the collection. The first year we began with Mary and Joseph and baby Jesus. Last year we added a sheep. Now (thanks to our awesome find), we have two wise men to add to the collection.
    • Craft Fair
    • Walked and talked in the beautiful (and unseasonably) warm weather here in Michigan
    • Rummaged in my clothes closet. Bit of background: she helps me weed out my unused and outgrown clothing. Between the two of us, we managed to clear out a huge bag for Goodwill and another large bag, she took home with her. Thank you, Bonnie! You are a miracle worker – I could not face my closet alone.
    • Breakfast at Perkins   

    My girlfriend from PA, Bonnie, and I had a fabulous weekend! We laughed without restraint and random craziness prevailed.

     If any of you have a lead on another wise man, please let me know.

     

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  • Sat., Nov. 7 – 1 yr Anniversary

    Saturday, November 7, 2009 marks the 1-year anniversary since my brain surgery!!

    How appropriate that my dear long-distance girlfriend, Bonnie from PA, will be here on my 1-year anniversary. She, being the one to notice my swollen left eye, and suggesting I get it checked out by the doctor.

    I am so excited with the prospect of seeing her again after a year and a half of not seeing her. I have a few ideas for what we could do. 

     Any ideas from my friends? 

    Of course, we’ve been in contact via e-mail, Skype, cards and packages, but this will be special. Face-to-face is different and there is NO substitute for face-to-face meeting.  We have so little time, so much to say, and so many possible things to do while together again.

    Here’s my list of possibilities:

    • Craft fair
    • Macy’s for a make-over & the mall
    • Eastown Business District eclectic mix of shops
    • Consignment Shops
    • Bookstore

    Maybe just sit at home in front of the fireplace with a cup of tea/hot chocolate, a movie and pizza!

    Whatever we do (or don’t do) will be truly divine, necessary, and good for the mind, body and soul!  Who knows…there just might be another story evolving!

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