Tag: birthday

  • Happy St. Paddy’s Birthday to my Daughter!

    Who knew that over 30 years ago my husband and I would be blessed with such joy? Joy came in the form of the birth of our first (and only) daughter, Amanda Sue. Until the birth of a child infuses your life, words fail to convey the awesomeness of such an event.   Amanda Birthday Collage 2

    Children do not come with an instruction manual. There are no warning labels attached to those tiny, perfectly formed fingers and toes. When their first breath or cry comes forth, your breath and heart pauses. What does come is an overflowing joy, awe, and fear of messing up this parenting role.

    As a second-time mom (the first, our son, appeared on the scene just 13 months earlier), I knew the basics. I understood the initial pain in childbirth, the post-partum depression, sleepless nights, endless feedings and change of diapers. Yet all those potentially negative aspects paled in comparison with the ultimate joy of bringing forth a living, breathing, precious human being.

    All that to say, Steve and I are eternally grateful to the Giver of Life and Light. He blessed us then and continues to bless us as we watch our grown up daughter. Amanda, your sparkling, beautiful eyes, boundless joy and energy continue to ignite all those around you. God blessed you with intelligence, ingenuity, love and concern for people and animals. I cannot imagine life without you and the special spot you hold within my heart. Love you to the moon and back again, hugs and love from Mom and Dad.  Happy Birthday!!!  

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  • Joy-filled Birthday

    This year was a big milestone. A really big one, the big 60! Oh my. To say it seems BIG, but to write it. Well, just seems bigger. But, you know, I’m okay with it now. A big birthday bash was thrown in my honor. Not just for reaching 60, but I wanted it to be a celebration of life and living. Living seven years past brain tumor surgery. I want all to know that I am MOST GRATEFUL that God chose to spare me to live more days, more years beyond major surgery.  

    My Family Libs chalk birthday artMy son and family drove from Minnesota just to be with me. A HUGE thank you goes out to family members and dear friends who were present or wished me birthday greetings. I am indeed blessed.

    My grandchildren drew pictures with pink hearts and wrote words on the sidewalk with chalk. I’m feeling loved. And I’m feeling very blessed. I pray this little Light of mine will shine brightly in the days, years to follow.

    Here’s what my granddaughter wrote on the sidewalk:

    Family with me:

    Me (Liberty)
    Mom (Bethany)
    Dad (Andrew)
    Elijah
    Zeek
    Ean
    Nana (Teresa)
    Grandpa (Steve)
    Amanda

    The End

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  • Jesus: the Reason for the Season (part II)

    My preparations for the season (so far) consist of running here and there while wearing myself out. I’ve carved so little free time out to just sit and contemplate the real reason for the season. It is Jesus’ birthday and He is the reason for the season. 

    I’m pretty sure the God who sent his Son to die on the cross for our sins is less than pleased when I turn the Christmas season into a chaotic competition. Jesus’ birth in a non-descript stable caused angels to sing and shepherds to follow a star. All of heaven rejoiced at the birth which changed the course of mankind forever.

    Dear God, please forgive me for being so occupied with my own agenda that I fail to acknowledge the giver of the most perfect gift of all. I’m sure glad you weren’t too busy to think of me. Thank you for sending your son to die in my place and for those who believe on your name.

    How about you? Are you taking time during this hectic month to thank God for the indescribable gift in the form of God’s only Son?

    “Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift! (2 Corinthians 9:15)

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  • Jesus: the Reason for the Season (part I)

     

    “Be completely humble and gentle, be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace” –  Ephesians 4:2–3.  

    Mary, Joseph and Baby Jesus
    Mary, Joseph and Baby Jesus

    I don’t know about you, but I have a hard time being patient with some people. Maybe it’s the season of the year. Christmas is approaching fast and I don’t have all the gifts purchased yet. The presents I do have are scattered all around my office. The room is a complete disaster. I’m waiting for the neat fairies to descend, wave a magic wand, and all will be categorized, packaged and labeled ready for delivery. I can dream, right?

    Family members can’t make up their minds when they’re available so a Christmas time table can be set. My personality thrives on schedules and unity, and when neither happens, I tend to stress to the max. A gentle spirit rapidly gives way to an abrupt, cool personality. Patience melts into exasperation and love has a hard time finding a home in my heart. The results resemble anything BUT peaceful.

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  • Want a taste of what my day was like? Here goes:

    Yesterday is over, and this is a new day. Want a taste of what my day was like? Here goes:

    •  Early rise to drop of unwanted free-trial cookbook at Post Office – I’ll be early for class this time
    • Upon leaving P.O., realize I’d forgot something at home
    • Drive back home to pick up the forgotten item
    • Back on freeway – drive to Women’s Bible study class at Calvary Church
    • Rats! Now I’m 10 minutes late for class
    • Great sharing and learning time in Ephesians 4 and Romans12, verses 1 & 2 – don’t let the world squeeze you into its mold – be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
    • Lunch with the gals at Applebee’s
    • Drive downtown in preparation for yearly mammogram
    • Am early for appointment, so I wait and catch up on the latest local women’s magazine. I affirm what I’d heard from the editor, they now use on-staff writers predominately. Free-lance writer has M.D. behind her name. Note: probably not an option this go-around unless I achieve “M.D.” behind my name. Not on my “to-do” list this year.
    • Check in at Women’s Health Center, fill out paperwork for mammogram, a.k.a. boob crusher, cruncher, smoosher as Angie says–you choose a name to fill in the blanks.
    • Re-do picture – seems an added flap of skin masked what she desired to see on the screen. So, the smoosher is applied again on each side. Comment from operator: “That’s okay; don’t see too many skinny grandmas.” Well, I’ll give her that one – I’m not skinny. But then she added, “After all, the grandkids want a smooshy grandmother!” Okay, enough small talk, get on with it lady –then, I’ll outta here!
    • Quick walk to the end of the block to see a condo sign for sale – the day is perfectly sunny and WARM – we’re talking 70 degrees in Michigan on the 16th of March! Circle back to my Jeep and off to the mall – don’t really want to be INDOORS, but duty calls.
    • Stop at an anchor store to spend a gift card, and pick up two pairs of black trouser socks for my birthday daughter born on St. Patrick’s Day—my Green Baby (I know what you’re thinking? But,  sock’s aren’t very exciting, but she’d asked specifically for them for Christmas)
    • Tried to smile at people in the mall as an experiment. It works! Everyone I smiled at, smiled back at me. Note: have to try that more often. However, from what I learned from a friend, it might not work in Abu Dhabi—they scowl at lot!
    • Body Shop – to hunt for her (and my) favorite body butter: “Satsuma.” – Yum! Bonus: it was on sale, 2 for 1 special!
    • Biggest redeeming value of mall trip: FOUND the gift we really wanted to give to Amanda – in the most unlikely store on the Way Out of the mall. Other retailers said it couldn’t be found! PTL!
    • Back home again – critique another writer’s work in prep for tonight’s writers’ group
    • Hubby – comes home, notices the warm beauty of the day and suggests we take the motorcycle for a spin. How can I resist?
    • Our glorious “spin” ends up at Wendy’s for supper – back home to drop me off, then he heads downtown for his photography class
    • One look in the mirror –talk about a flat hairdo, so I attempt to resurrect my hairdo recently created by Helmet – there’s not much hope there, so I head out to Grandville Biggby’s coffee shop for our bi-monthly writers’ group. This evening’s topic: creating that all-elusive book proposal
    • First mistake of the evening: ordering a Mocha-Mocha skinny. I sort of feel obligated to order something because they are gracious enough to allow us to use their facilities for two hours. I go up to the very-young barista at the counter: “I want that Mocha drink that makes you skinny.” His response, “Sorry, lady but it doesn’t make you skinny; it’s just called the Mocha-Mocha skinny.” Well, dummy, I knew that! I was just making a joke, can’t these young people take a joke? Guess I shouldn’t quit my day job and pursue comedy.
    • Meeting went great – received lots of good feedback on my book proposal – now I know I still have a ways to go before my March 20 on-line submission for Festival of Faith and Writing conference at Calvin in April.
    • Second mistake of the evening: refilling my coffee cup with more coffee (it was de-caff, mind you). Thought I’d be safe, after all, a couple of the guys refilled their cups, what harm could it do?
    • I found out very quickly and clearly just what harm it could do – at least in my body! But, it tasted oh so good.
    • Drove home – made a quick phone call to my niece to determine what time she needed me to baby-sit her 16-month old child on Friday. 7:00 am!!  I’m to be at her place at 7:00 am – yikes! What was I thinking?? Email to a friend to set up luncheon meeting after I baby-sit.
    • Ahhhhh!!  Bed at last! Quick check of the news and weather, and I’m off to never-never land. Well, or so I thought! I remember checking the bedside clock at least six times…12:30, 2:00, 3:10, 4:26 a.m. – guess that last cup of coffee was not such a hot idea after all! Think I learned my lesson: I should stick with water with lemon!
    • I believe it was about 5:00 am when I finally drifted, only to hear Steve’s alarm go off about 6:15 a.m. So, I’m up and at it. Do ya think my brain will track so I can get some more mileage out of my fingers on the keyboard to improve my book proposal and mediations? I must admit—I do have my doubts!  Pray for me!!

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  • 31 years ago on this date…

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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU…HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU….HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DEAR ANDREW, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!

    Wow, it hardly seems possible, but ’tis true. Being in labor a good share of the weekend, I could not soon forget the birth of our eldest son, Andrew. Feels somewhat surreal at this point…like it was just yesterday and like it was a long, long time ago.

    Like any family…

    Experienced our share of ups and downs

    Times of great joy

    And times of great sorrow

     

    Yet, through it all

    I somehow knew

    God was in control

    Even when I didn’t see him

     

    Love won out

    Over doubt, rage, and fear

    He watched over us all

    Kept us together as one family

     

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