Three Sleeps Before Christmas

“Fear not for I have redeemed thee, I have called Thee by name; thou art mine,” Isaiah 43:1

Maybe like me, your Christmas holiday plans are not going as expected. I’ve been in physical therapy since October trying to help mend some worn body parts. Hubby Steve tested positive for Covid Christmas week and is really sick. This obviously put a kibosh on being with family and friends. No shared food or gift giving for now.

He’s stuck with me and our dog Skipper. We’re stuck with each other in a COLD climate with a winter stay-at-home blizzard approaching.

My expectations. My thoughts. My ways. Notice all the “My’s” in this paragraph? I keep saying, “Your will, God; not mine.” If I’m being honest, I still want My way and My expectations fulfilled. Forgive me, Lord!

A long-distance friend wrote that it will be a “Silent Night Christmas for us.” Another friend wrote, “Peace. Quiet. Serenity.”

Not the thought that came to my finite brain cells. More like: Really? At Christmas? This can’t be! Big-time Bummer. Waiting to see how it all turns out is more nerve racking.

I shared with a friend how I woke early with thoughts of a story. I propped myself up in bed with my heating pad on my neck and shoulders and penned some words. She suggested that this book idea is “for such a time as this. Maybe this time of pain and suffering the Lord will use to grow you and so many of your loyal readers into being more like Him…believe the best rather than assume the worst. I’ll be praying.”

She also quoted an older man from her church who’s known for saying, “The Lord knows.” All these up-in-the-air decisions, celebration gatherings, physical and mental anguish, broken and failed relationships—the Lord knows. In fact, He knew about all of these areas of our life long ago. My part is to trust and believe He’s working all these things out for my best. He knows and cares.

That’s another thing I love about my friends. They’re honest, loyal, and not afraid to point me to the Light, my Saviour. Isaiah 43:1 is a great reminder, to fear not for I am redeemed. He knows me on a first name basis. I am His and He is mine. What more do I need?

How about you? Do you fear certain things especially this time of year? Can you call on the Great I am, God, to rescue you from those fears? There’s no better time than now to say, “Here I am, Lord. I believe in You and want you to be my redeemer-friend-Saviour.” It’s as simple as that.  

post by Teresa K. Lasher, author of:

The Child becomes The Parent: Coping with Grief” and “Life is: Good, Fragile, and Precious–Loving yourself so you can love others

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6 responses to “Three Sleeps Before Christmas”

  1. Peg Mason Avatar
    Peg Mason

    Christmas finds me with dual challenges: influenza and asthma! WOW. Breathing, nausea, cough, energy gone, mess, etc. I’ve canceled all but one piano commitments for days. Yet! View out my window is spectacular. Electric fireplace is cozy, Christmas tree shines brightly, my special lighted electric Angel is beautiful. Christmas will come in my heart regardless of how I feel. Wonderful memories, precious family, comfortable surroundings, friends, music! All is well. The Christ child is welcome. I am blessed. I pray you, too, have a wonderful Christmas, Teresa.

    1. teresaklasher Avatar
      teresaklasher

      So good to hear from you Peg. Isn’t it true…we look around and there’s so many others who have heavier challenges.
      I love “Christmas will come in my heart regardless of how I feel.” So true. Thank you for sharing with me.
      Have a blessed Christmas and New Year. We are indeed blessed, my friend.

  2. EARL & JUDY THOMAS Avatar
    EARL & JUDY THOMAS

    We all have anxiety this year and the storm coming does put a damper on our holidays with our families but they are not who we are celebrating….IT IS THE BIRTH OF OUR SAVIOR.
    Things in this life can disappoint us, but we can always celebrate later.
    We will pray for you and Steve that you will get better and be able to
    Celebrate maybe next weekend with your family…which is our plan B.
    MERRY CHRISTMAS OLD NEIGHBORS! Your in our prayers!!

    1. teresaklasher Avatar
      teresaklasher

      So good to hear from you, Judy. We do share a common bond this Christmas with the weather, health and all. Thank you for the reminder that “but they are not who we are celebrating…IT IS THE BIRTH OF OUR SAVIOR. Things disappoint, but our God never will. MERRY CHRISTMAS BACK TO OUR OLD NEIGHBORS WHOM WE MISS TERRIBLY. love you guys, S & T

  3. Chris Ham Avatar
    Chris Ham

    Teresa, I know how disappointing it can be to have all of our plans and expectations squashed by difficult and painful circumstances. It is a sad, lonely place to be but I have found that is when God pulls us closer to Him. We learn He must be first in our life and we must see Him ad the satisfaction of all of our longings. But it’s hard, right? So I pray you will feel His presence and love warm your hurting heart and body-even better than that heating pad!!
    PS. If you need anything from the store, let me know and I can pick it up for you.

  4. Karen Bradley Avatar

    Thanks for sharing and yes, this should be your next book. This short synopsis has strengthen me and reminded me to take me out of longings of disappointments and remembered I belong to Christ who knows.
    Happy birthday Jesus, it’s all about you not me.💞

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